"Pull a Marie Antoinette act too often and he may react by doing his best Harry Houdini impression and disappearing on you once the Red Tide comes in." I had no choice but to read up on PMS. Thats a funny line. Its been said by Osker in Idle Will Kill that 'patience is nothing worth holding on to' but thats if your glass is half empty i guess? Patience is mind over matter. and i know whay you did. Practice what you've preached